A woman came for a Past Life Regression to find out why she was following the same pattern of choosing abusive men. She had been married twice to men who were wife abusers, and she was engaged to a third man who had a history similar to her two preceding husbands. She was desperate to find out why she was attracted to this type of man and about to repeat the same mistake again!
After a short guided relaxation, I directed her to go back to the source experience for her selection pattern in regards to men. My client said, "I'm in prison. I see bars. No, I'm a baby in a crib. It is this lifetime, when I was a baby."
I asked her to look around and describe where she was and what she was experiencing. She answered, "I'm alone. There is a party in the next room. I hear laughing and noisy people. Oh! There is someone coming into my room. Oh, don't let it be my dad!"
My client did not describe what occurred next in detail, but the event clearly involved molestation of herself when she was a baby. I directed her to take her "adult self" back to that trauma -- and hold her "baby self" -- giving the baby whatever she needed, in order to resolve and heal the emotional wounds of this event. After approximately 2 minutes my client said, "OK, she [the baby] is all right now."
I then directed my client to scan through her life up to now and determine if this infant molestation incident had influenced her later in life. She took only a few seconds and then exclaimed, "Shit! I always pick a man who is so bad that he makes my father look good!" During the remainder of the session, my client and I worked on healing her selection pattern in relationship to men, now that she could understand the source experience for this pattern.
She called me a couple of weeks later and reported, "I got rid of that S.O.B. [her boy friend]. I don't need anymore men like that!"
This case illustrates how the subconscious mind controls and directs behavior at very deep levels, with no regard or apparent awareness of the serious and often destructive consequences. The subconscious just wants to conform with and complete instructions, even when they are destructive to life and body.
